12 Bad Habits That Will Ruin Your Life-Habbits of a failure

                           12 Bad Habits That Will Ruin Your Life

Assalam-o-alikum/Hello friends!
I want to ask you a question, Do you want to spemd your life like a looser and uin your life?
Or saying in other words, Do you want a life where you dont have Money, sucess, respect?
Your answer is probably no, so I will share 12 bad habits with ou which will ruin your life. And you should
start avoiding these habits from now! so for eleminating these habits from your life I will share books that wil
help you change your life. Book summaries of some of these books are available on youtube so I will provide links to that.


Habit 1: lack of continuous focus:

The first habit will force you to not read this article completely and only 30-40% will read this completely.
Do you know if the best creators of world make best of best videos, then after starting the video the viewership
starts to decrease. Infact if we see the numbers after the starting of the video 25% of the people will not watch the
video and will start watching another video. This is also a fact that about only 40-50% of the people will watch
the video till the end, WHY ,was the video damp, NO but the real reason is Because one of our bad habbits
today is lack o continuous focus. Our attention span is lower far below the limit. That is the reason today short
videos have taken away the lead and will also take the lead in the future, that is why these big platforms like
Youtube, Instagram etc. are investing in short videos.
Our capability to focus on one task is continuously decreasing. For maximum people it has became a really bad
habbit, which has stopped them from doing one task completely that'swhy people are not able to work on their
goals.
This habbit "Lack of focus onn one thhing" will literally make your lifr dump.


Habbit 2: Judging too early
One person was siting on the seat of bus, some of the women were standing in the bus, most of the people of
the bus startted judging the pperson that "how rude this man is, women are standing in bus and he is siting"
A man in the bus goes to the person sitting there and asks him to please stand up and allow the women to sit
as an act of respect to the women, on hearing this that person starts standing up, as he stands up all of the
 people become embaraced, because the person actually was not having legs and stood up on his walking sticks.
So second bad habbit that will ruin your life is "Judging too early". Always judging too early, yu will not
be able to collect much knowledge from people. Everyone has a gold con of knowlwedge with him, so by judging
you will loose this gold coin and inturn you will make your life dump.


Look everyone has bad habbits, the one wins who learns and corrects his bad habbits.

Habbit 3: Procrastination:
The most comon bad habbit today is procrastination. If you als procrastinate with your work then comment "procrastination".
For people who dont know what is procrastination, it is the habbit of delayin your work with self made lame
escuses.
Looking at this habbit fictionally, of the procrastination is the king then its kingdom is.........?DO YOU KNOW?
Then its kingdom is the most dangerouus place in the world, its not death road, its not snake island, its not Gate of hell, rather it is
"COMFORT ZONE" which is also our 4th bad habbit.

Habbit 4: Comfort zone:

Comfort zone is the place where very tailented and secessful people die after coming there.
Here I will quote a famous saying:
"if you are not growing then you are dying"
Comfort zone is the place from where you can only die, you can nener grow. So please if you want sucess leave
this kingdom today as soon as possible.

Habbit 5: Mobile phone addiction:
REMEMBER!
There was a time when for the addiction people were dependent on the alcohol, ciggerate etc but today most people
are addicted to their mobiles more badly than any other addiction.
you can literally do millions of task today on mobile from gaming to streaming. which all will release a very
large amount of dapamine in your brain.
For the people who do not know about dopamine, it is the exact same hormone which is usually released durinng
soking, alcolol consuption etc. When dopamine is released in one's brain it makes him feel very good and satisfied.
That is why today most of the young people as well as elder people are very badly addicted to their mobile phone
and most of people even do not know that it is an addiction. So quitting or leaving this habbit is very importabt for
us today if we want sucess.

Habbit 6: Quick Emotional Attachments:

This thing happens with many people, most of the time people become emotionally attached with bad people
or with the people who dont care about them, This habbit also hurt most of the people. So make sure you are emotionally
attached to only good and caring people.

 

 

Habbit 7: Getting up late in the morning:

you might have listened from many people that "the moves too fast these days", Why it is?
Reason is there is a trend thesedays among us where we willingly or unwillingly sleep late in the night,
and inturn get up late.
Infact I see the people who say this like a fashion that" I get up 10:00am every day in morning"
Most of the people use their mobile phones till late night and get up very late in morning.
Now you might think "what is wrong with sleeping too late in the night"?
This might not have any notable effect on your life  but there is an important question for you that "Do you know any ultra sucessful person who sleeps too late in night".
Answer in comment
According o many research the most sucessful people of the world sleep early and get up early. because of getting early
they are able to maintain their health, get a good amounnt of time every day to work on their goals.

Habbit 8: Contact VS connection:
If you put a drop of oil in the glass of water, the oil will come in contact of water but will not dissole/make a connection with water.
but if you put a drop of milk in water it will completey dissolve/make connection with water.
Most of the people today have developed a bad habbit of only making a contact with people rather building
a connectionwith people. We come in contact to our parents everyday but we do not talk to he heart to heart with them.
We make alot of social media friends but we do not build a connection with them. And this bad habbit
is also making us mentally sick and weak. Stress, Anxity and Depression have become a part of our society because
of this habbit. So from today stop living in fantacies and start building deep connection with good people around
you.
 
Habbit 9: Comparing yourself on social media:
Today we are always comparing ourselves with others on social media which is again a very harmful and bad habbit.
Most of the things that seem awsome on social media are always fake. The people on social media only show the
best of best part of their life, so when we compare our daily life with those people it makes us feel very bad
plus most of the times you compare Chapter 10 of other persons life with the chapter 1 of your life which is also
very annoying. We compare our self wih the people who are far more sucessful from us which is just a stupid action.
It is also very dangerous for our mental health.

Habbit 10: Disrespecting others:

Today we are very commonly seeing it that they do not respect elder people, for presenting themselves Cool in
eyes of others they make fun of elder people and disrespect them. The problem here is that if you will not respect others
especially the one who are elder then you will not be able to learn from their experiances. Respcting and learning
from elders will make us more knowledgeable, a person with wisdom and respect.

Habbit 11: Bad influence:
A 20 year research shows that a if friend who lives near us is happy or depressed then it will also affect our happiness
and chances of being depressed increase for about 25%.
A famous saying about this is "you become the average of the five people with whome you spend most of your time"
Another famous quote is "show me your friends and habbits I will show you your future".
That is why it is very important to be a choosey person about your friends with whomw you spend most of the time.
If you will choose bad people to be with you then you will also start becoming like them but if you will opt o choose
good people as your frieds they will also positively influence your life and will allow you to achive your true goals.


Habbit 12:  Finishing what you started:
A famous hindu monk and an entrepneure he says "The most powerful way to build the self confidance is to finish what you dtarted"
Maximum people start many of the thimgs but never complete those things or ideas. That is why if you are reading this artice
till here then Congratulations you are gonna finish what you started. and you are somehow consistant
Comment below if you read this til here.



Now I am summarizing and recomending books accordingly:
Habit 1: lack of continuous focus:
     1-The power of concentration
    2-Focus
Habit 2: Judging too early
    1-Think like a monk
Habit 3: Procrastination:
    1-Do the work
Habit 4: Comfort zone:
    1-Can't Hurt Me
Habit 5: Mobile phone addiction:
    1-Indistractable
Habit 6: Quick Emotional Attachments:
    1-NO more MR nice guy
    2-Emotional intelligance
Habit 7: Getting up late in the morning:
    1-Miracle morning
Habit 8: Contact VS connection:
    1-How to win friends and influence people
Habit 9: Comparing yourself on social media:
     1-EGO is the enemy
Habit 10: Disrespecting others:
     1-EGO is the enemy
    2-Think like a monk
Habit 11: Bad influence:
     1-EGO is the enemy
    2-Think like a monk
Habit 12:  Finishing what you started:
     1-EGO is the enemy
    2-Think like a monk